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Who talks first ?

im just a bit confused ... ok i got this girl that i like and i think she does or did like me aswell .....

for example, on msn, when we both online, she neva talks to me first ..... if she does she like waits 30-60 mins or so and then asks me a question about college work or something like that, and neva just says hi .....

so just wanted to know, if u girls do that ? like wait for the guy to talk to u first ? cos i realli get annoyed sometimes when they dont say anything .....

well, if you're interested, IM her first... that'll show her you're interested and next time, she won't hesitate or wait so long to IM you.

then again, you're waiting for her to IM you too, aren't you? noticing that she's waiting 20-30 minutes might mean something like that... so you're being the exact same as she... get it?

lol i do that all the time with my bf .. ill wait for him to IM me .. but he usually does within the first minute he signs on newayz..so when he doesnt..ill sit there and wait and like 5 min later he goes .. why dont u im me babe? lol im like .. im waitin for u .. and here he is waitin for me .. so .. it shouldnt matter .. if a couple min goes by and they havent Imed you..im them..cuz their probably just waitin for u to IM them haha jeez oh man

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yea i agree with Ladi Jay u shouldnt wait for her all the time..if u want to talk to her just do so..i mean if u have absolutely nothing to say then dont bother but by talkin to her first maybe it'll get her more comfortable with approaching u or at least saying hi first..u know whats even better? CALL her

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but don't IM her the moment she signs on

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nah i usually im her first, but i just wanted to see if she would im me first ...... and yeh well she waited shit long ....

yeh ok, i get it ...... girls like to talked to first .....

why don't you just call her... like on the telephone? or talk to her... in person? easier said then done?

from now on just let her im u. i dont like games that girls play. its dumb.

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haha yeh ken ur so rite !!! =]

yeh i talk to her in person and sometimes on phone .... shes someone i wanna ask out soon ....... but its just annoying how i hv to be the one that starts it all ...... it screws with ur head, like i thought she was mad or ignoring me or woteva .... stupid mind games =]