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Posted by Ladi Jay on 11-17-2002 12:56 AM:

I've been through so much...

I've been through so much with boys that now... I'm just not attracted to anyone I see... I may think they're cute but I don't want to get to know them or anything... what's happened to me? Ever since this passed summer, I've had no interest whatsoever in any guy that approached me or any guy that I've talk to... it's wierd because I'm just not interested... any help?

Posted by DEmeant0r on 11-17-2002 01:33 AM:

Maybe a past relationship has hurt you so much that you're scared to be in another?

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Posted by pinoyXako on 11-17-2002 03:48 AM:

maybe u are about to "come out of the closet" lol

but seriously, i think that with the experiences you had with other guys have narrowed that the number of guys that are perfect for you...i think that nothing is wrong with you

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Posted by PsychoSnowman on 11-17-2002 04:24 AM:

i think that's a good thing julie. It'll be easier to find better people that way in a way.

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Posted by tea on 11-17-2002 04:36 AM:

youre still young..you have your whole life ahead of you, so dont worry about love just yet

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Posted by saranghae on 11-17-2002 04:37 AM:

i don't see anything wrong with it.

maybe since ur past relationship.. u see guys clearer?

it could juss be that the rite person hasn't come yet.

Posted by TyGer STyLe on 11-17-2002 08:11 AM:

quote:
Originally posted by tea
youre still young..you have your whole life ahead of you, so dont worry about love just yet

true that... you have plenty of life to live, don't be discouraged by what has happened this early in your life...

hahaha your just asking for it from psytek....

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Posted by Crazydeb8ter on 11-17-2002 09:07 PM:

6 words: it doesn't matter at your age.

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I've been through so much with boys that now...I'm just not attracted to anyone I see

thats a pretty big leap in logic

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Posted by WhiteLee on 11-18-2002 02:06 AM:

Yuo're just not interested. It's not a bad thing. Maybe it's even a good thing. Since you're not attracted right now it'll keep you from getting hurt any more than you already have.
take a break. Be single for awhile.

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Posted by merc on 11-18-2002 05:23 AM:

edit.

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Posted by jini on 11-18-2002 10:49 PM:

yea... i've been like that too lately since i realized school's more important. i have enough stuff to stress over. takes away from my load.

n.. let them come to you

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Posted by aznkid1008 on 11-18-2002 11:16 PM:

hmmm im just waitin for the "face the facts"

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Posted by krnxkid on 11-18-2002 11:22 PM:

dun worry
u still hab lots ob time

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Posted by psyTeK ver. 2.0 on 11-19-2002 02:15 AM:

Re: I've been through so much...

quote:
Originally posted by Ladi Jay
I've been through so much with boys that now... I'm just not attracted to anyone I see... I may think they're cute but I don't want to get to know them or anything... what's happened to me? Ever since this passed summer,
I've had no interest whatsoever in any guy that approached me or any guy that I've talk to... it's wierd because I'm just not interested... any help?

WHY is it that you sound so arrogant and cocky in everything you say on the topic of relationships? here you are saying "im not attracted to them, im just not interested, blah blah, im ego-inflated, i think im too good for guys, blah blah..."

ME ME ME, i swear that's what you love to talk about most on this forum.

face the facts, miss jay. the only failing element which connects you to each of your past relationships is YOU. meaning if you've had so much trouble with boys all this time, you need to at least consider for a second (aka deflating that big ego of yours which i personally don't understand why you have in the first place) that it just might have been you all this time that's been making the mistakes with guys. And somehow your telling us that YOUR not interested in any of the guys you meet now? even if you've been doing everything right all this time (i doubt it, i really do) and you just happened to have some bad luck with a few of your past boy-issues, how can you say your just not interested anymore in guys because of your past experiences? doesn't that mean your currently generalizing when you shouldn't be? it's like your trying to imply to us that your providing a great disservice to all men out there by removing yourself from the dating scene. ...lol.

how should i finish this post off? how about this:

quote:
I've been through so much with boys

you've been through nothing, so stop thinking you have. your still a little drama queen of a girl to really know what true relationship issues are, so DON'T put yourself up there with the people that face real, noteworthy problems related to love and dating. u've still got a long way to go, kid.

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Posted by MellowYellow on 11-19-2002 02:20 AM:

you've been through so much with boys???

oh PUHLEEZE honey! don't even MAKE me laugh my head off

i agree 110% with psytek.

if you're trying to gain sympathy or somthing..... "go sell your "pitiful" love stories to someone else"

and yea as psytek said... if YOU find YOURSELF not attracted or interested by guys.... maybe it's YOU.....

lmao... "i've been through so much with boy" AHH HHAHA....

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Posted by TyGer STyLe on 11-19-2002 02:21 AM:

haha... what did i tell you... you were askin for it... haha... geez...

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Posted by aznkid1008 on 11-19-2002 03:00 AM:

quote:
Originally posted by TyGer STyLe
haha... what did i tell you... you were askin for it... haha... geez...

well atleast u tried 2 warn her
gj

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Posted by Crazydeb8ter on 11-19-2002 03:56 AM:

agreed w/ susan and psytek.

his most poignant statement:

quote:
ME ME ME, i swear that's what you love to talk about most on this forum.

is very true.

Posted by MiGhTy KiTTy on 11-19-2002 04:12 AM:

quote:
Originally posted by tea
youre still young..you have your whole life ahead of you, so dont worry about love just yet

yup yup. ^^

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Posted by KeN VeRsUs RyU on 11-19-2002 04:27 AM:

face the ass , i think you just need a good noogie. let me show you my drunken tiger.

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