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Drunkenxtiger
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Tell him about all your problems between you and him. Even if it does put pressure on him. Then try to work things out. If he doesn't ATLEAST TRY to work things out, then he really doesn't love you. Cuz in a relationship, both persons have to be able to make sacrifices.

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BlazeCentury
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get ur parents invovled...

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Re: Should I break up?

haha.. you shouldn't break up~..^^; uhm.. you know what..
he loves you.. you just can't understand him..
but..later on.. you will think about time that he loves you..
you don no..how much he lovs you.. but..
later on..you will..cuz..that is a love..

" ma ex-bf was really..-_-; terrible..-_-;; he never called me..
and he did't talking that much.. but.. he was
beside me..(always) but 1 year later i broke up with him ..
and everynight i cried.. cuz.. i tought i was so stupid..
he loves me.. but that time... i tought he's hate me.. "

-..no..forever love.. never..ever.. -

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do yourself a favour and break up then maybe you'll stop worrying so much about stuff like that and concentrate on your studies instead [i'm just guessing you're young]

there are many fishes in the sea.

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Re: Re: Should I break up?

quote:
Originally posted by psyTeK ver. 2.0
face the facts, it seems to me like both of you are to blame for the gradual collapse of your relationship.

For you. What can the guy do if he's not much of a talker? Those reasons he gave for your questions all seem like valid answers to me, so I don't know why your trippin' so much. If you knew him well enough, you would just accept his laconic personality for what it is. And, if you loved him, you would trust him to be the kind of person who wouldn't cheat on you. What is love without trust?

As for him. I have nothing against sensitive guys, but he seems like a little pansy. If he's too sensitive for you to bring up and talk about some problems with him, then your missing the "compromise and communication" aspects of a well-rounded relationship. Being easily pressured isn't any better, since your bound to make him do or go through something he doesn't really want to. he simply needs to hurry up and grow a backbone, and not go off crying on the phone just because you brought up an awkward conversation with him.

face the facts, it's time both of you took the time to re-evaluate where you stand in your relationship with each other.

haha fraeking love it when you post...dunno why..always have to read it..and youre right most of the time ehhe

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Re: Re: Re: Should I break up?

quote:
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haha fraeking love it when you post...dunno why..always have to read it..and youre right most of the time ehhe

same here

i dunno why.. i juss love reading wut he posts.. haha.

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AZN Pinoy BOI
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quote:
Originally posted by rhymester*
do yourself a favour and break up then maybe you'll stop worrying so much about stuff like that and concentrate on your studies instead [i'm just guessing you're young]

there are many fishes in the sea.

yeah i know... you should be studying... and there are many fishes in the sea, why suffer with one when u can have ab tter relationship with another...

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Re: Re: Re: Should I break up?

quote:
Originally posted by castle outsider
haha fraeking love it when you post...dunno why..always have to read it..and youre right most of the time ehhe

you like it when I write a lot? Should I take that as a comment?

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quote:
Originally posted by AZN Pinoy BOI
yeah i know... you should be studying... and there are many fishes in the sea, why suffer with one when u can have ab tter relationship with another...

What better relationships are there? I can never get a guy and this is my longest relationship I've had..

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you like it when I write a lot? Should I take that as a comment?

there talking about psyTeK ver. 2.0... and ofcourse it's ur longest... it's only ur 3rd.... and thats only counting the guys LOL! jk jk... it doesn't seem like u'll find another person... u and Ta... uh... ur friend from the city can't even see how many years ahead of u... y worry now when school is more important... i can understand a relationship when grades are a's b's and ocationally c's because ur ready to take care of urself, of a relationship, of priorities thats are very important.... but right now it seems like ur too into this relationship

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quote:
Originally posted by AjY 2k
kill him and dump his body in a lake

prob not the best idea. judging by the way he cries on the phone when u try to talk to him about the relationship, he doesnt seem that stable. maybe theres something going on at home that hes having problems with. or maybe he feels let down that you broke up with him the first time and doesnt wanna get too involved cause u broke up with him once already.

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prob not the best idea. judging by the way he cries on the phone when u try to talk to him about the relationship, he doesnt seem that stable. maybe theres something going on at home that hes having problems with. or maybe he feels let down that you broke up with him the first time and doesnt wanna get too involved cause u broke up with him once already.

first logical thing ive heard u say kevin...GJ!!

i agree

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quote:
Originally posted by * Liah *
What better relationships are there? I can never get a guy and this is my longest relationship I've had..

how do u know that? ur only 15!

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quote:
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first logical thing ive heard u say kevin...GJ!!

i agree

u wanna hear intelligence, read my post on christianity, but nobody has yet so everybody still thinks im just a retarded kid on the school computer or something.

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quote:
Originally posted by merdawg
how do u know that? ur only 15!

EXACTLY!! are you rushing to get married or something?? There will be time later in life to concentrate on relationships and stuff like that, you should be enjoying your youth instead of worrying about shit like that!

take it from me, i'm a old lady! kakakaka

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