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azn0monk
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compatible with no one

possible? watcha think yo

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niggoreanboi
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i'm not compatible with anyone eh it ain't so bad livin alone

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no matter how weird you are i think there will be someone out there as weird as you to match up

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niggoreanboi
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no matter how weird you are i think there will be someone out there as weird as you to match up


Why did i have to grow up in Berkeley with all the wierdos? their wierdness rubbed on me!

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lol well i believe somewhat that anyone can find someone to love them back.

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yea i think everyones got someone out there..its just a matter of time b4 you find em hehe

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to me i always believed that everyone has an soulmate, and its just a matter of time till you meet... I don't know... its like you can date a bunch of guys but theres always that one special guy that will alway pop up in your head.. so i think that everyone is ment for someone... cause without love there wouldn't be pain and everyone knows that pain is always caused by the one you love most...

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kangg fu
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i agree with red_anjo...this may sound cheesy and prob isnt true but it is said that souls originally are joined together, and then seperated at birth..sounds cool

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quote:
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i agree with red_anjo...this may sound cheesy and prob isnt true but it is said that souls originally are joined together, and then seperated at birth..sounds cool


that sounds really nice

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haha, they had these compatibility tests in our school, and you paid for the answers. but i didnt, and read someones, and there was this kid who was not compatitble with anyone. everybody made fun of him

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craziistarz
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naw.. everyone has someone for them.. even if u believe there is no one for you.. there will always be someone thats perfect for u.. but -shrugz- just my oppinion.. oh yeh.. oh yeh.. and it's true.. once u get old.. all people need is a decent looking woman who can cook and clean.. hahaha i dunno.. =P nm.

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drunken_mnky
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yeah yeah yeah das all correct there is no such thng as a person wid no oder person mathced for him and her he may or she may not no it but there is simply a another dsud ewaiting for dem to relize it :d so yeah ppl dat dun have a boyfreinds or girlfreinds relax alright chill cuase u will meet someone :d

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of course it's possible that there's no one out there that is "compatible" with you. There's always that chance. Probability is no reason to say it's not possible.

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i think... it is possible to not be "compatible" with anyone... people can go searching all their lives and never find the person they were destined to be with... sounds bleak... but it happens... but the thing is... thats not what love is about... being compatible with someone doesn't mean love will spark and catch on fire... you could have all the same intrests and laugh at all each other corny jokes... but the spark of intrest may never catch... thats the funny thing about love that ive found in the short few years of my life... it is that love is unpredictable, and nearly impossible to predict what will happen in the future of your love life... love is what makes a person's flaws look like diamonds in the surrounding rough... love is what makes all your differences worth while... call me a romantic... but ive found this true...

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this is one of my favorite passages, from Zora Neale Hurston's Their Eyes Were Watching God

"She had found a jewel down inside herself and she had wanted to walk where people could see her and gleam it around. But she had been set in the market-place to sell. Been set for still bait. When God had made The Man, he made him out of stuff that sung all the time and glittered all over. Then after that some angels got jealous and chopped him into millions of pieces, but still he glittered and hummed. So they beat him down to nothing but sparks but each little spark had a shine and a song. So they covered each one over with mud. And the lonesomeness in the sparks made them hunt for one another, but the mud is deaf and dumb. Like all the other tumbling mud-balls, Janie had tried to show her shine."

not to be taken literally, of course. but i think if you are willing to look & listen closely, you will find that everyone has a shine and a song. for me, i think you know when someone is special when you can accept each other's mud and not only look and hear past it but amazingly, your shines reflect off each other and you can hum each other's tunes cuz they harmonize beautifully...

*sigh* i'm hopeless.

ok, getting off my cloud... on a more practical note... i believe that no two people are absolutely perfect for each other in every single way. part of compatibility is being able to work out the dissonances. so in a way, compatibility is relative.

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this is one of my favorite passages, from Zora Neale Hurston's Their Eyes Were Watching God

"She had found a jewel down inside herself and she had wanted to walk where people could see her and gleam it around. But she had been set in the market-place to sell. Been set for still bait. When God had made The Man, he made him out of stuff that sung all the time and glittered all over. Then after that some angels got jealous and chopped him into millions of pieces, but still he glittered and hummed. So they beat him down to nothing but sparks but each little spark had a shine and a song. So they covered each one over with mud. And the lonesomeness in the sparks made them hunt for one another, but the mud is deaf and dumb. Like all the other tumbling mud-balls, Janie had tried to show her shine."

not to be taken literally, of course. but i think if you are willing to look & listen closely, you will find that everyone has a shine and a song. for me, i think you know when someone is special when you can accept each other's mud and not only look and hear past it but amazingly, your shines reflect off each other and you can hum each other's tunes cuz they harmonize beautifully...

*sigh* i'm hopeless.

ok, getting off my cloud... on a more practical note... i believe that no two people are absolutely perfect for each other in every single way. part of compatibility is being able to work out the dissonances. so in a way, compatibility is relative.



that passage is beautiful

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face the facts, no one is destined to be alone... but it's the choices we make which cause that to happen.

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i disagree. i think some people are destined to be alone. perhaps their destiny holds something else for them. maybe through singlehood they fulfill their particular role in life, whatever that may be. of course, their choices do affect what happens... but their choices become their destiny. so in that case, maybe there isn't someone out there for them... but it's not because they are worthy of or "compatible" with no one.

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lostadonis
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face the facts, no one is destined to be alone... but it's the choices we make which cause that to happen.


Yeah, and that choice is led by contentment. Which means that some people just settle.

But to answer your question. I think that's impossible for you to be incompatible with someone else. Isn't that weird how they say "opposites attract," and then there's also the phrase two "wrongs don't make a right." I guess it's a glass half full/half empty prospective. If you have one thing in common, that means you're compatible, though it may only be 1% of compatibility. Or you can think that you're 99% incompatible...but still proves that you have some compatibility with any one.

Make sense?

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even though i HATED "their eyes were watching God", i admit that was a nice passage

sometimes i feel like im not compatible with anyone (in a romantic sense)..i feel like im compatible buddy-wise but never anything more..and i dont like the guys that like me so theres another downer..i dont believe theres only one person out there for everyone..guess im not much of a romantic..

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