i relali need help on dis plz
my gf says all dis shit about loving me and stuff but she never calls msg's or emails me wats going on man i need some advice ?? iz she just going out wid me for a game is she pissed off wid me itz like our 5th month anaversary on de 5 feb and i dunno waht to do HELP ME JEBASE

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Communication, ofcourse, is a key element to any relationship. And, thusly, it cannot always be one-sided. Tell her that it is important to you that she call you about as much as you call her so that you can feel that the relationship is more balanced instead of you feeling that you are having to hold it all together alone.
If she doesn't cooperate or even consider your proposal...Then that's a problem. She might a)be defensive (in which case, you'll have to clarify your feelings and p.o.v) or she might b)be playing you for a fool
Whatever you do, though...it's your call

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Communication, ofcourse, is a key element to any relationship. And, thusly, it cannot always be one-sided. Tell her that it is important to you that she call you about as much as you call her so that you can feel that the relationship is more balanced instead of you feeling that you are having to hold it all together alone.
If she doesn't cooperate or even consider your proposal...Then that's a problem. She might a)be defensive (in which case, you'll have to clarify your feelings and p.o.v) or she might b)be playing you for a fool
Whatever you do, though...it's your call

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try to talk to her about it.
if it doesnt work, just dump her

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Yea Id say tell her how u feel...maybe she doesnt realize that its bothering u and maybe she thinks if she calls u too much youll get annoyed with her...or maybe she....doesnt wanna be with u?? I dunno~ But theres a few suggestions

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i had this SAME exact problem. my ex didn't call me or e-mailed me. It was always me that started the convos or the e-mails. And wenever i would call her, she would just be silent and not talk. I had to ask questions that she could answer so that we would be able to talk. Everything else was fine, but COMMUNICATION is a big part of a relationship, and that is why mine didn't work out.

you should talk to her about it, cuz if you don't it will get worse. i just hope you don't end up breaking up with her, cuz it is hard to break up with someone especially if its ur first love u kno?

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well i know this girl whos having that problem. then her bf walks up to her next day and says 'i love you' and then shes all happy again. this is the 2nd or 3rd time this happened? im like, r u blind..

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dont be the overassuming paranoid bf. emails and msgs are so highschool.

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dont be the overassuming paranoid bf. emails and msgs are so highschool.

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i had this SAME exact problem. my ex didn't call me or e-mailed me. It was always me that started the convos or the e-mails. And wenever i would call her, she would just be silent and not talk. I had to ask questions that she could answer so that we would be able to talk. Everything else was fine, but COMMUNICATION is a big part of a relationship, and that is why mine didn't work out.

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well we ARE in highschool, right drunken_mnky? and you're in college..-_-;;

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dont let all the msging and emailing get in the way of your relationship ... if you really want to get in touch with her .. than YOU call her ...

my ex got pissed just b/c i wouldn't page him 99 and stuff

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so i just did it to make him happy .. oh geez.


but dont let that ruin your relationship .. i mean if she says she loves you .. and you know that she does and vice versa ... then there shouldn't be a problem ..

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yeah yeah me in high school yr10 dis year. hmmmz yeah u allz have a point, one thing that remains foggy to me is we both moved schools she moved to plc and i moved to mountwaverley if u ppl don't noe were dat is itz like a long way way i think anywayz yeah i wont be seeing her only during de holidayz iz dat going to affect my realtionship ??
thnakz u've al healped alot

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yeah yeah me in high school yr10 dis year. hmmmz yeah u allz have a point, one thing that remains foggy to me is we both moved schools she moved to plc and i moved to mountwaverley if u ppl don't noe were dat is itz like a long way way i think anywayz yeah i wont be seeing her only during de holidayz iz dat going to affect my realtionship ??
thnakz u've al healped alot

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I guess distance is also a problem in a relationship. Perhaps the next important thing after communication?
Now, if you guys don't communicate, and now having moved farther apart from each other, it's going to be harder. So just talk it out with her...

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I guess distance is also a problem in a relationship. Perhaps the next important thing after communication?
Now, if you guys don't communicate, and now having moved farther apart from each other, it's going to be harder. So just talk it out with her...

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