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Does anyone have any family that they are no longer in contact/were never in contact with?

My mother's side of the family lives, for the most part, in Korea.
I have two aunts that live in the US. My aunt Youngli, I think she still lives in NC. My sister and I used to visit her...though she didn't really talk to us much or anything like that.
My aunt Eunmi lives in Maryland. I just met her in '99. She came to visit. But we aren't close. I visited her this past summer without my mother or sister. I freaked out after a very short while and had to come home early. She wasn't a terrible person at all. She was really, very nice. It was just...we were such strangers that it was really awkward, and that made me really nervous.
I feel a little resentful to a good portion of my Korean family. They never called(except for Eunmi) or wrote letters. And, since my mother can't speak Korean anymore...we have no medium of communication, anyway.
I dislike not knowing them, though.

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how long has your mom been in korea?

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My mother lived in Korea until she was twelve and then emigrated to the United States to live with her eldest sister(Youngli) After a while, Youngli decided that she didn't want to deal with her and sent her off to a foster family. My mother spoke Korean into her late teens and then gradually forgot after not speaking to her family for such a long time. It has been about twenty years. My aunt Eunmi(living in US for about five years) can't understand why my mother doesn't speak Korean anymore and is trying to push her to regain the language.

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i dont know my moms side of the family either. i met her cousin one time but that was it they all live in korea. my mom still knows korean like she left korea when she was 8 n neva went back till she was like um...40 or so in 99' cause she and her family had gotten seperated..long story. anyways when she went back she started to remember everything hehe. i cant speak korean -_-v she neva taught us sighs oh well ish so funny if my grandmother calls or my aunt cuz im like uh ahn young blah blah and like rush to give her da fone

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i don't noe even half of my family

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Originally posted by KpSwEeTiE143
i dont know my moms side of the family either. i met her cousin one time but that was it they all live in korea. my mom still knows korean like she left korea when she was 8 n neva went back till she was like um...40 or so in 99' cause she and her family had gotten seperated..long story. anyways when she went back she started to remember everything hehe. i cant speak korean -_-v she neva taught us sighs oh well ish so funny if my grandmother calls or my aunt cuz im like uh ahn young blah blah and like rush to give her da fone

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HAHHAHA yes it is a long story sang (=p)

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after mai aunt on mai dad's side passed away (she was mai dad's sister) her husband married someone else in less than a year. that made the entire family on mai dad's side pissed off, but they cudn't do nethin bout it. mai father resents him so much that we've basically lost all contact with that branch of the family. mai dad prolli duzn't even consider them family nemore cuz he had kids with that woman (mai step aunt i guess) and mai uncle duzn't even care about the kids he had with mai aunt. the last time i saw anyone from that part of the family was about 5 and a half years ago at mai aunts funeral.

i don't know a couple of aunts back in the Philippines... i have like 3 cousins spred around the US and i donno who they are...

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nothing has really happened like that to me. but i did have some relatives who live in another country who we dont really talk to anymore

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