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Posted by KiMbAkSA on 11-04-2002 11:28 PM:

why is it so hard to......

throw a gift away that your x gave you?

is it just me or is it normal???

i kept it for a very long time its been couple of years..i think im juss being foolish rah?

is there a way to let it go?what should i do?or should i just keep it and wait...?


Posted by dalgyal on 11-04-2002 11:36 PM:

heh` i still have the stuff my ex gave me..
i dont want them ne more..
but i mean.. i cant juss throw them away.. =T
heh` so i juss keep `em haha -_-;

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Posted by eddiee on 11-04-2002 11:36 PM:

i burned mine


Posted by Ladi Jay on 11-04-2002 11:37 PM:

I threw his pictures away! hahahaha


other than that, there was no other gift... I didn't want gifts from him


Posted by yur_swt_angel on 11-04-2002 11:39 PM:

i don't really throw anything away.. i put all the stuff my ex's gave me in a box.. and store it in my closet.. or the attic xp


Posted by Nojeel on 11-04-2002 11:40 PM:

Re: why is it so hard to......

quote:
Originally posted by KiMbAkSA
throw a gift away that your x gave you?

is it just me or is it normal???

i kept it for a very long time its been couple of years..i think im juss being foolish rah?

is there a way to let it go?what should i do?or should i just keep it and wait...?

because of the fact that you still have feelings for that person..its the honest truth..if you cannot even get rid of a gift someone gave you in your past relationship..it must mean its a really nice present and you want to keep it..but i seriously doubt that..most likely cause you cherish it because a certain person gave it to you..seems like your still holding on to that person..it could be a good thing or a bad thing..just don't latch onto them too long when they are not interested at all..you could get hurt..

if your honestly do not care about this person and want to TRY to forget about them..then you must basically get rid of all the things that reminds you of him..unless you want to remember that person...

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Posted by KiMbAkSA on 11-05-2002 01:31 AM:

-_-;;

I put it in my pocket and hopefully i would lose it somehow... if not than...i'm going to think of another plan.....-_-;; but what???...[[confused]]

thanks for taking your time and helpin me out = )

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Posted by aznkid1008 on 11-05-2002 02:28 AM:

well i've been called weird 3 times 2day only so im startin 2 believe it (keep that in mind). i keep them. as long as i actually luvd that girl and she luvd me i always keep a memory in my heart. yea i had a few really bad break ups but look the other way and remember the times when we actually were in luv. but the heck do i kno

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Posted by junjinluber33 on 11-05-2002 03:39 AM:

i have all the notes and sentimental things of my exes in boxes somewhere... haha~

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Posted by Jj2 on 11-05-2002 06:15 AM:

i either a) burn mine or b) throw them out

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Posted by angelicxshield on 11-06-2002 08:58 PM:

everything from my ex's are all in one lil box . . stored somewhere in my closet . . havent burned anything yet . .

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Posted by ibabiExbOrai on 11-07-2002 03:59 PM:

ehh..i havent burned or thrown ne thing awai...even thO itz all in the past...i feel soo bad to juss rip it up haha sO i juss keep piqz and stuff in mah wallet`


Posted by Street RSX on 11-07-2002 06:51 PM:

it iz hard to throw them away.. i jus keep it places and sumtymz i jus lose it.. itz better if i do.. instead of burning it.. cuz then i feel too badd.


Posted by rhymester* on 11-08-2002 06:14 PM:

for those stuff that means a lot to me, i jus keep it for remembrance. but usually i give it back to the person, i duno why. its like here, take your heart back..haha

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Posted by krayzy_gurl on 11-13-2002 04:55 PM:

i burn, rip them and throw them in the bin, or just leave it somewhere and don't care.. i still have a close relationship with my ex but its only for friendship.. i broke up with him for a good reason and we remain friends.. at first reading all the letters and letting go was really hard but when u do it..... u think (well i was thinking) about the pass and good times we had, but i was also thinking of why i broke up with him in the first place which motivated me to let go and burn all the letters and throw away all the pictures etc etc.. there is no use keeping something that would bring back memories which would hurt me even more . all the good times and fun i had with him would only be remembered in my mind.... its best keeped that way.. plus if your new b'f finds that u still have your ex's things.. wouldn't he be really jealous.. you'll be in that sitution of explaining things to him.. which would only cause trouble because if u love your new b'f wouldn't u just throw alway your ex's things.. ?

sorry if it doesnt make any sense its 2.54 am in the morning in australia.. i am feeling pritty tired... sorry for any errors or if u dont understand...

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