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Rape, person still considered virgin or not?

Id like to hear ur opinions on this. If a person was raped would u consider them a virgin or not?

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well....to me physically they aren't, but, it wasnt their fault and it was done forcefully and without the pleasure that one would normally feel when having sex with someone they love, so to the person who got raped, they still would not have really experience to joy in love making. so mentally i guess they are still virgins... im confusing myself

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Originally posted by rhymester*
well....to me physically they aren't, but, it wasnt their fault and it was done forcefully and without the pleasure that one would normally feel when having sex with someone they love, so to the person who got raped, they still would not have really experience to joy in love making. so mentally i guess they are still virgins... im confusing myself

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Originally posted by AZN Pinoy BOI
if there raped they had sex, they did it, they were un verginized(?)... it doesn't matter if they don't like it or not they had sex, doesn't matter if they were forced or not. raped doesn't mean that u had sex with someone u don't know, rape is when ur forced to have sex period. 65% - 75% out of rapes were men getting raped by women, such as blackmail or didn't wanna have sex but did it for there girlfriend ... everyone always things of rape as someone getting kidnamed and blind folded and had forced sex but thats not the only way. Yes being raped is still having sex, yes they are not verginz

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yeah i agree with the ppl who say that ur not a virgin cause if someone with aids raped you, you cant be like im a virgin but i have aids. (but not from blood transfusion) Also i see what people mean by mentally still being a virgin but i think it would be hard for a rape victim to say and think their still a virgin if they get pregnant or something.

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65% - 75% out of rapes were men getting raped by women

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Originally posted by .aS.|5p!7f!|23




umm are u sure about that cause theres something about that that just doesnt seem true. iono i could be wrong but still its just weird.

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Originally posted by AZN Pinoy BOI
if there raped they had sex, they did it, they were un verginized(?)... it doesn't matter if they don't like it or not they had sex, doesn't matter if they were forced or not. raped doesn't mean that u had sex with someone u don't know, rape is when ur forced to have sex period. 65% - 75% out of rapes were men getting raped by women, such as blackmail or didn't wanna have sex but did it for there girlfriend ... everyone always things of rape as someone getting kidnamed and blind folded and had forced sex but thats not the only way. Yes being raped is still having sex, yes they are not verginz

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I can see what Helen's saying. Purely on a physical sense, when a woman engages in intercourse for the first time, her hymen is broken (if it wasn't broken before, for various reasons), and that's mainly what makes her a virgin. If she was raped, and she hadn't engaged in sexual intercourse before, then yes, she's no longer a virgin. If you were to include a mindset in your definition of what a virgin is, in that one would be "giving themself" to another person in the act of intercourse, then in that respect you could consider them a virgin as well. But then again, there are other things to consider such as being inebriated and engaging in consensual sex, the lines become blurred at that point.

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Originally posted by AjY 2k
lol that statistic isnt true at all. and usualy rape is when your in an area not supervised (mall parking lots, underground garages, empty staircases, alleys).

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Originally posted by .aS.|5p!7f!|23
tru tru ... i knew he just made that up or had a retarded health teacher

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well if you have sex, meaning you had sexual intercourse.
wouldnt you be considered a non-virgin?

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mentally i guess shes still a virgin..physically she isnt. =X

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Originally posted by krnxswat
well if you have sex, meaning you had sexual intercourse.
wouldnt you be considered a non-virgin?

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Originally posted by .aS.|5p!7f!|23
umm when did this conversation start to be about rape??? were talking about messed up heath teachers here. stay on task

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rape isnt a good thing from what ive been told (my piece of mind) o also i talked to your health teacher and he/she said that he/she was wrong and that he/she is sorry for giving you that false info. you dont have to thank me.

if you're raped, you aint A VIRGIN anymore.

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