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How do you aproach a girl you dont know and start a conversation ? someone help

okay i know the basic things say hi and ask her name and the things she likes to do and stuff but give me something better. Just dont say be yourself cause first impressions are always important so help me please

Here's what you should do... If you really wanna get to know the girl, ask her to go on a date with you... You must be thinking that it's too sudden, but it's a better way to get to know the girl. If she says no, then ask if you can call her... That's another good way to get to know her. A lot of guys who ask me always say that... and it's worked a few times... Yep... hopefully that helped... If you really wanna know more, just PM me!

ya lotta guys ask me that too

uhm.... if some guy i didn't know came up to me and asked me for my number or asked me on a date i would be creeped out...

maybe that's just the loser in me talking...haha

well if you know her through someone else.... then you could get that person to introduce you to her... that's always easier than talking to her out of the blue.....

i guess that's my only suggestion except go up to her and just talk to her. i mean, don't try to come on TOO strong cuz that would just make you seem neu kih heh ( like spitting out pick up lines like "hey i lost my number can i have yours?" ) but make sure she knows what you want

and the whole thing about first impressions being important and being yourself? totally true.

are you asking "how do i act like so she'll like me?" cuz in that case you've got the wrong idea. if she doesn't like you for who you are is she really worth talking to? and sometimes stuff changes. i know this guy who at first kinda creeped me out haha. we were friends and if you asked me if i was interested i would say NOOOOO(well he wasn't that attractive if you want to know the truth). but now... well the more i got to know him the more he seemed cuter/sweeter hahah. and in another case i met this guy and he was so hot and seemed pretty nice but yea now i think he's the biggest jerk. so yes first impressions are important and for the better part lasting, but through the course of the relationship (love interest or just friends) you'll change... and their idea of you will change as well... (like it did for me)

so for real..... just be yourself...

and also... those guys....i dont' think they changed....i just think my perception of them changed as i got to know them better...

eh...that wasn't very good advice...haha....sorries... i tried to put my own experiences into it.... didn't work did it....haha

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Originally posted by MellowYellow
uhm.... if some guy i didn't know came up to me and asked me for my number or asked me on a date i would be creeped out...

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Originally posted by RaCeR_LaDi_MoOn


Well, he said that he'd talk to her first and ask name, age, etc... blah blah blah...

The #1 one that a girl would probably like to see if a guy talks to her outta the blue is...confidence
For real, if you don't have confidence in yourself, she'll probably rub you off... Well, I would do that anyways

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hey, hah i just saw a thread like this, kind of, at bronx's. Here's the URL:

http://www.bjunkyard.com/cgi-bin/ik...=ST;f=20;t=4161

It's about asking a girl out that isn't in your school.

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