ok first of all, this person has NO RIGHT to treat u like that. just cuz he/she's goin thru hard times duzn't mean they hav the rite to use and take advantage of othr pplz. u hav to stand up for urself, cuz no one's can solve this problem cept u. scared of confrontations, u say? then hint at it in a more subtler way. i dunno, write a note, email, sumtin. but i think face encounters alwaize work best. just cum out and say it. it gets rid of all the excess crap. and then...ur scared u mite lose that person? well to me, if that person wuz usin me, i wud nevr hav considered them a frend in the first place. basically, dun let urself be walked over like this. do sumtin bout it!
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