You will never understand those around you, and they will never understand you, unless you speak against their original thoughts. I've tried to be a real open person this year. I tried getting to know all sorts of different people, not too personally but enough so that I know who they are and they know me. That's one of the reasons I'm writing this now, I'm interested to see how people here are, like you Jusun, you've been on my bus sometimes and you never say anything, but that's not how it is here right? Curiosity killed the cat doesn't always apply to this, the truth is, if you're interested, stand up and speak. And if you get burned, go on, there are others who won't act like an ass to you. If you don't build an immunity to assholes, you will never get on in life.
Only go against those who have offended you first, act normal to the rest, and you will find that you have a lot more variety in your life and a lot more friends.
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