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heyitzsaemyi
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does he like me or hate me?

i'm not sure if he likes me or really hates me..
i feel like he always avoids me nd stuff.
i go to same school and church w/ him so i see him like everyday.
he always talks to other ppl at church except me.
i dunt talk to him at school since differ grade.
The times that he does talk to me, it'll be small talk. Not yet the friends type of talk (we're not reallie fwends, church person ). He talks or ask something about grades, school, class, a recent event, etc. Once he does get into the conversation with me, he'll start asking some questions..
i've seen him glancing at me few times...
He sometimes make a fool of himself, sometimes..
When he comes around, he won't be direct. Most likely, he'll be around when I'm in a crowd with ppl I both know.
nd he alwayz talks to my church best friend and my older sister..
he doesn't express his feelings too well.
nd i sorta like him and i juss wanna know if dis is sign of him liking me or hating me..

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krnxswat
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Re: does he like me or hate me?

heh I guess it can be both. But basing on my experience, I'm inferring that he likes you, because I was once like that too, and still am. heh. I guess he's the shy type of a person? Like at church, there's a girl I like. But I can never have a conversation with her. So I just roam around her when she's around a crowd of people. And when we do talk, I just ask her questions. Random questions I guess, school, friends, etc. Maybe he talks to your church best friend and your older sister trying to get closer to you? heh I don't know. But I'm guessing that he likes you.
In addition, why don't you be the one starting conversations? Instead of waiting for him to approach you and talk to you. Talk to him, be friendly. Get to know him better, get him to know you better, so you guys can be more comfortable with each other.
But on the other hand, who knows, it might be the other way.

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i dont think that he hates you. i dont think it could go that way. i know exactly wat sean ho is talking about. i think he likes you but doesn't know how to go about being himself around u. u kno?

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hah. i dont think he hates you .. since you dont really talk ... to each other ... i dont think it's a really hate or like thing ...

instead of waiting for him to talk to you or when your with your friends ..why dont you make the first move instead? not so you can get with him ... but instead just so that the two of you can get better aquainted ...

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* Liah *
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Sometimes boys don't want to get rejected and maybe he might think you only like him as a friend and doesn't want his feelings hurt... if you hang out more the closer you get and the more that he can make the first move.

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mayyyybeeee... justtttt mayyybeee.... he just wants to be a friend.

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Sometimes boys don't want to get rejected and maybe he might think you only like him as a friend and doesn't want his feelings hurt... if you hang out more the closer you get and the more that he can make the first move.


sometimes? lol. more like all the time.

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well, i dunt think he is reallie shy but maybe he's shy around girls he like (?) i'm not sure..
anywayz, he had those two quotes on his msn messenger screenname thingy..
1. have u ever try to truly love that person? if you u really love that person, do best u can until that person recognize ur true ?
2. I WILL WAIT UNTIL SHE ACCEPTS MY HEART EVEN IF THAT IS THE DAY AFTER FOREVER....
3. i like some one now... hehe... but should i ??
i think he likes somebody but i dunno who...
my sister waz lyke asked him but he said he doesn't lyke anybody..
but another oppa at church put on his screenname thingy like
*cough* don't cry over a girl

*cough*= instead of the name..

how do i get him to tell somebody who he likes?
that is if he likes anybody...

Nd, my sister keeps teasing about it and i never even told her who i liked. she read my diary.
i hate her!!
nd if i try to talk to him, she gives me dis smile or laugh that says see, you do like him, look.
cause i didn't admit that i lyke that guy.
that's why i don't start conversation w/ him cause of my stupid sister who read my diary.

what should i do???

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heh about the quotes on his aim away message, maybe he just put it there because he liks those kind of quotes. Like for me, I you those kind of away messages too, just becasuse I like it. Or maybe he put it there for a reason, maybe he does actually like someone. haha how do you get him to tell who he likes? flirt with him. haha. or seduce him . "you do like him, look. cause i didn't admit that i lyke that guy." I think you like him. You wouldn't be writing these kind of stuff here if you didnt, right? heh and don't let your sister get in the way. She's probably just jealous or something. You don't start a conversation with him because of your sister? I think that's a lame excuse. Try starting conversations with him, ignore your sister. keep your diary in the safe place where your sister wouldn't know. Well I'm guessing that he likes someone, like you said he had an away message saying that he likes someone. So get him to tell you who he likes`

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well, not an away message on aim..
a screename on msn msgr.
if u dunno, u can change yer display name..
yea..

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quote:
Originally posted by heyitzsaemyi
well, not an away message on aim..
a screename on msn msgr.
if u dunno, u can change yer display name..
yea..



oh haha, sorry i misread it. ^^;
yeah i use msn messenger too ;D

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my fwend said he prolly likes somebody.
she said itz prolly her or me..
i dunno.
should i just tell him my feelings?

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quote:
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my fwend said he prolly likes somebody.
she said itz prolly her or me..
i dunno.
should i just tell him my feelings?


yes...i think you should. I kno its hard but really..whats the worst that could happen?? him say lets be friends or something? I dont think hed be mean about. so..yea tell him how you feel...he might just feel the same way and then you wont regret makin the decision to tell him

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i personally get really annoyed in MSN when ppl put quotes or song lyrics, or whatever that is super long thats more than 15 characters long. my MSN window width is about 1/8 my screen. so any MSN nick too long, i can only see a part of it. and if its a quote, i prolly wont be able to reconize that person. and i dont like to run my cursor over their nick to see their email to identify who it is.

and becuz in MSN, u cannot rename ppl, u must read whatever
they put up... kinda perfect for advertisement. haha

my MSN is blazecentury@hotmail.com (if anyone cared)
(i like ICQ better)

oh yea, btw, i think that guy does like u. i mean im so shy i dont even talk to girls. or very rarely. but i mean i would go thru the same strategies hes using. talk to the girls' sister and best friend, get some info on her, get closer. ya ya.

this guy is pretty strategical...

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