quote: Originally posted by Ladi Jay
I never thought that anyone could love their first gf/bf and be with them forever... I always thought----and still think----that everyone builds off of what they learn in their first couple relationships... they build off of it and realize more and more about what they want... get my point? you learn and build, learn and build, learn and build... until you reach what you want in your lover...
well i believe in the opposite.
i dun believe dat u should be picky when it comes to REAL, TRUE LOVE. its like ur picking and choosing which ones u dun like and which ones u like. dats not wat love is about. love is about accepting each other's flaws and still loving the person for who he/she is. u gotta admit dat we ALL have flaws. if we keep picking at those flaws, we'll never end up wit somebody!! u know there is no such thing as a perfect man/woman.
and u said about "building off... and realize more and more about what they want..." TRUE LOVE should NOT be about "what i want." it should be EACH OTHER - the man and woman. u know the saying "there's no 'I' in TEAM"? well its kinda like dat... when ur in a relationship, we should all try not to be selfish and be like "i want this, i want that."
i hope u understand my point of view. not tryin to say ur opinions are wrong or watever. just want to challenge u a lil bit ;]
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