quote: Originally posted by Ladi Jay
can I ask you what I said that was so offensive to you? I didn't post this up for entertainment, for pity, or any other reason... I just simply wanted to vent off and figure out why I am the way I am right now... is that wrong? I didn't think so... you make me sound like a conceited person and you act as if you know me enough to top my parents off... you don't know me so quit assuming things and thinking things that aren't even true about me... I don't base any of your personalities on just your posts... but whatever, what I say you won't believe because you seem to think that you're always right and I'm always wrong... whatever...
just one thing, get to know me in person before you actually assume things about me... and no matter how many times I tell you that I've been through a lot and enough with boys, you won't believe me so I won't even bother... if you even bother to get to know me, you'll see that I'm not all naive about situations like this...
and what makes you think that you are such the love doctor? what you say is logical and anyone can think of relationships and love in the way you do... mebbe not me but I just don't take things like this seriously anymore because I'VE BEEN THROUGH A LOT!
btw, mebbe you need to change your character too... you're so pessimistic and negative about everything... be happy, smile a little... see things in a brighter angle...
that's all I have to say... I'm taking what you say to heart and consideration because I want to cope... I really don't know why you're hating on all the things that I post in here...
again, what I posted was not for entertainment or anything... I was actually trying to reach out and get some help... so instead of critisizing me for the little things, at least help? thank you
oh, one last thing... you assume things way way too much... telling others to face the facts... mebbe you need to know your facts instead of assuming... get the drift?
-sang, I'll get to you
i don't assume anything about you. your typical, and i'm very familiar with people like you, whether it be "online" or "offline". you are just about as naive in the issues of love as a little child, and the reason why i can say that with confidence is the fact that what you write in these forums (as i have said before numerous times) clearly reflect the person you are in real life. and NO, you weren't reaching out to get help from us, yet instead you were simply trying to get attention and comfort when you don't deserve it. be wise and know the difference between the two, you ingrate.
all i gotta say is this. if you really wanted to garner my respect and everyone elses', you could have taken the simplest route and explained your situation more thoroughly, therefore by doing so backing up your statement that you've been through a lot with boys. but of course, you didn't. instead, you chose to sit here arguing with me, trying to make yourself look good in front of everyone, ranting about how you went through "oh so much" with boys and not backing down from your own conceited opinion of yourself. you can never say a humble word about yourself, because you're always constantly pointing fingers at everything and everyone around you and blaming those things for your hardships, when it is most likely you all along that is the source of all your problems. and that is why in return i can never be humble, or "nice", with you.
again, why do you say your looking for help? you leave out anything of signifigant importance that could lead us to helping you in any way, and instead you leave in all the little egotistical statements about yourself which you have become infamous for, whether you realize it or not.
and two last things, jay. face the facts. i am not a love doctor, and i never said i was. i am not self-righteous like you think i am, because if i was, i wouldn't be wasting my time on someone like you. and also... i don't need to bother "getting to know you" to form my opinions about you. you've given me more than enough BS to work with already... get the drift?
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