quote: Originally posted by PsychoSnowman
sure i thought that may be the answer i was just curious about what he would do. If you falll in love with someone and they do not hold that belief would you not marry them and cut off the relationship becuase of that reason? It just seems like discriminating on a small detail to me, and cuts off a large sect of society.
you could ask them early on i suppose, but asking about one's sexual past is not such a welcomed question. If you found out later, then you would cut off the relationship for that reason?
i think that in relationships where the truth is such an important factor, that that question is acceptable. I think the present mate would understand why you are asking that kind of question because of your belief.
about cutting off the relationship, i think that if ur partner was truly looking for a relationship, then he/she would understand that question, and the decision you make if you decide to cut of the relationship.
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