Re: are you open?
quote: Originally posted by jusunlee
hmm. a lot of times, i find myself restraining myself from saying things that i would like to. its very hard for me to be really open to people. i wish it was otherwise.
Sounds just like me. Too often have I kept quiet when I should have taken a stand, always staying neutral to avoid the conflict, but also avoid getting feelings across and maybe missing opportunity. Too often have I been dubbed as "shady" because I'm not really "open" about my emotions and what I am thinking. So what of it? Sometimes I just don't feel like sharing with the group to entertain or sharing with certain people if I don't feel comfortable with them. Anyway, I'm a rather reserved person, keeping certain things private. However, occasionally when in the right mood or feel the need to rant I will divulge. (not in the betrayal sense though) Despite all this I still wish that sometimes I did not horde my thoughts and that I found it easier to talk with people, but things are changing everday.. I mean I joined this board didn't I?
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Last edited by Ariana on 03-13-2003 at 02:41 AM
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