yes hun, it hurts....and it will hurt the first few times too, don't rush things though, I dont' know how old you are, but.....I find it very honorable that you want to wait until you're married...as for your friend saying you don't want to be hurting your whole honeymoon, she's half right....because well, everyones different, it maybe just be hurtful the first few times you have sex, but then comes the fun afterwards :D And i'm sure when you get married your husband will be gentle and care about if he is hurting you or not, its a great experiance, but DON'T RUSH INTO THINGS YOU'RE NOT READY FOR.
Some girls as young as 14 loose their hymen horse back riding or bike riding or gymnastics or....whatever, usually by the time you're 18 you don't have a hymen anymore, but that doesn't mean you wont bleed, becuse if a girl is tight, she may rip and that is even more painful than breaking a hymen, which really doesn't hurt.
For the first timers, its a good idea to use some type of lubricant, because most girls that are about to loose their virginity are very nervous, therefore are tighter so a bit of help won't "hurt" haha, get it? i'm such a cheese, hehe
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