to have a relationship? and im talkin about a real one here... none of that blow all your hard earned (or for you spoiled ones out there) allowance money on your gf/bf for no reason because your gonna break up in a month or two anyway kinda stuff...

i ask this cuz... at my tender age of 19 i still feel that i still have alot of maturing to do before im ready for a real relationship. what do all of you think?

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well i think its possible to have a nice long term relationship at 19..but if you personally dont think youre ready then i dont know how long it will last..but it definitly is possible..my parents been dating since like 17 years old and their married for 26 years now, i kno other people like that too

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I believe that you will be ready for such a relationship when you "feel" ready. Obvously if you "feel" you have more maturing then you most likely do. And maybe you just need that right person and grow into it......but you sound very mature to admit that you don't think your ready yet. Everyone matures differently. Look at me and my husband.......there is 11 years difference and I still act more mature than him most of the time.

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